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Originally posted by Rambly Those are several of the reasons I don't like using Discord; my personal space bubble is a little too wide for it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not antisocial, but I just don't feel comfortable with the room full of people vibe you're describing. It's too close, and also too fast paced for me, I just can't keep up with it and it overwhelms me. I'm just not an especially intimate person really, I like having a bit of space between myself and the outside world. I can't tell you why, but Discord just feels a little too constricting to me, a little too exclusive, and way too fast paced. I don't like exclusivity. I can see why it would be very cool to someone else, but that person really isn't me. I really did try to like it, though. So I prefer forums. The public feeling of it is nice, and I can maintain a bit of a shell between myself and the forum while still being able to interact with it. There's no pressure to react in seconds to a conversation lest another take its place, no need to join yet another forum you're never gonna look at again just to download a game or something, and it's usually a lot easier to search for past conversations. Plus, you don't really see people spamming the link to their forums everywhere they go, at least not anymore. Maybe it was a thing back in the early 2000s, but... I used to use Twitter, but it got to the point where every post I saw was either electoral politics that I don't really have any interest (or stake, in the case of European politics) in or just memes that weren't funny and everything there was just designed to be disposable, so I just stopped using it after my 6,666th post. Nowadays I only ever see it when someone specifically links a post, and I'm happier for it. I still want to keep an online journal, and I kinda set up my neocities page for it, but I'm just an incredibly lazy person and don't want to manually fill in all the HTML just to say something like 'today was terrible, wish I had some more HRT, I should probably give that email a proper reply. Bye now!' every single post. Twitter was mostly just an online journal for me, but it wasn't a particularly decent one, so I ended up moving over to Mastodon. It functions just fine and 500 characters is way better than 280, but the instance I picked while seemingly decent at the time eventually degraded to the point half the people there are robots reposting the same few prepackaged lines or ridiculous memes over and over. It somehow still is less annoying than Twitter, which is an accomplishment. This post might be incomprehensible nonsense, it is way, way later than I should be up (2:48 am), and I really need to be sleeping, since for some reason I wake up at about 8:30 no matter when I go to bed. Sorry if it is. ____________________
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Yep. You just have to make it a priority to go. But even if you don't, it's completely asynchronous so it's not that big of a deal if you only check up once every couple weeks.
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